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Sharon & Bernie

馮詩曼 · 謝沛楠

Sunday, April 18, 2027

2027年 4月 18日

Pudong, Shanghai

上海 · 浦东

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Sharon & Bernie

Our Story · 我们的故事

Since 2022, we have experienced quite a bit of world together. From music events to road trips to international excursions, below is a timeline of a few of our firsts.

  1. First Photo Together
    2022 · Half Moon Bay

    First Photo Together

  2. First Camping Trip
    2022 · Lake Sonoma

    First Camping Trip

  3. First Festival Together
    2022 · Head in the Clouds, LA

    First Festival Together

  4. First National Park
    2022 · Zion National Park

    First National Park

  5. First International Trip
    2023 · Japan

    First International Trip

  6. First Trip with Sharon's Family
    2024 · Europe

    First Trip with Sharon's Family

  7. First Destination Wedding
    2025 · Cebu

    First Destination Wedding

  8. First Time Visiting Bernie's Hometown
    2025 · Shanghai

    First Time Visiting Bernie's Hometown

  9. First Trip to Sharon's Roots
    2026 · Guangzhou & Hong Kong

    First Trip to Sharon's Roots

  10. First Time Seeing BTS
    2026 · Stanford, CA

    First Time Seeing BTS

Save the Date · 日程安排

The Schedule

The Evening Before · 前夜

Meet & Greet

Saturday · April 17

Time TBD
Venue TBD
Dress Casual

Join us the evening before for a relaxed welcome — a chance to say hi to friends and family as everyone arrives. Venue and timing details will be shared closer to the date.

The Wedding · 婚礼

Ceremony & Reception

Sunday · April 18

Ceremony TBD
Reception Following ceremony
Dress Black Tie Formal

Ceremony, dinner, and celebration all take place in one indoor rooftop space.

Venue

High Yunjian

by Light & Salt

High·沄涧

光与盐 · 前滩中心店

R1 (rooftop level), Qiantan Center, 555 Haiyang West Road, Pudong New Area, Shanghai — beside Qiantan Taikoo Li.

上海市浦东新区海阳西路555号前滩中心顶层R1层（近前滩太古里）

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How to get there
  • Metro Take Line 18 to Qiantan (前滩) Station or Lines 6 / 8 / 11 to Oriental Sports Center (东方体育中心). From either, it is a short walk to Qiantan Center (前滩中心) — the tall office tower beside Taikoo Li.
  • On arrival Enter Qiantan Center and follow signage for Light & Salt / High Yunjian (光与盐). The restaurant occupies the rooftop R1 level; staff often greet guests at the Light & Salt lounge on the transfer floor — when in doubt, ask the lobby for “High Yunjian” or “光与盐”.
  • Driving & parking Navigate to 555 Haiyang West Road (海阳西路555号). Use Qiantan Center or nearby mall parking (several carparks serve this block — pick the one opposite Qiantan Center if your map shows multiple “stone zone” lots). Allow a few extra minutes to find the elevator lobby.
Dress Code · 着装要求

Black Tie Formal

正式黑领结礼服

Full-length gowns and tuxedos highly preferred. Please refrain from wearing full outfits in white, cream, or similar tones.

Plan Your Stay · 旅行指南

Travel

Everything you need to know for your trip to Shanghai.

Getting to Know Shanghai

Growing up in Shanghai, I always loved the food, culture, accessibility, and safety of the city. It's big but easy to navigate, and you can find everything you're looking for. Whether you're here for a few days or extending your trip, you won't run out of things to explore.

If you're staying in Shanghai for more than the duration of the wedding, I would recommend staying at one of the more popular neighborhoods below before moving towards the venue for just the couple of wedding days.

The food alone is worth the trip. Make sure to try the iconic Shanghainese dishes — xiao long bao (小笼包), sheng jian bao (生煎包), crab roe noodles (蟹粉拌面), hong shao rou (红烧肉), and nian gao (炒年糕). And you'll find drink and dessert shops on practically every block. Our favorites include Chagee (霸王茶姬), Ah Ma Handmade (阿嬷手作), More Yogurt (茉酸奶), Cococean (椰子知道), and Mixue (蜜雪冰城).

— Bernie

Where to Stay

We've listed a few hotels near the venue below, but Shanghai has fantastic neighborhoods all over the city — all well-connected by metro and a quick DiDi ride from the venue.

The Bund & Nanjing East Road · 外滩 · 南京东路

Shanghai's iconic waterfront. Walk along the Bund at night for the skyline views, then explore the old-world architecture and rooftop bars. Nanjing East Road is the city's busiest pedestrian shopping street. Great for first-time visitors, though also the most touristy area in the city.

Former French Concession & Huaihai Road · 法租界 · 淮海路

Tree-lined streets, boutique shops, cocktail bars, and some of the best restaurants in the city. This is where to go for brunch, coffee culture, and aimless wandering. A favorite area among locals and expats alike.

Xintiandi · 新天地

A beautifully restored neighborhood of shikumen lane houses turned into restaurants, bars, and shops. Lively at night, great for dining, and a short walk from the French Concession. One of the most popular areas for going out.

Jing'an · 静安

Central and vibrant — home to Jing'an Temple, the trendy Anfu Road neighborhood, and lots of excellent dining. A great base if you want to be in the middle of everything.

Xujiahui · 徐家汇

A major commercial hub in the Xuhui district with malls, hotels at every price point, and easy metro access. Practical and well-connected.

Lujiazui · 陆家嘴

The Pudong skyline district — Shanghai Tower, the bottle opener, Oriental Pearl. Stay here for the views and the luxury hotels. Right across the river from the Bund.

Qiantan · 前滩 (venue area)

A newer, quieter district in Pudong along the river. Home to Taikoo Li and our venue. Fewer tourists, lots of new restaurants, and the most convenient option for the wedding.

All of these areas are 20–40 minutes from the venue by metro or taxi.

Hotels Near the Venue

A few options within walking distance in Qiantan.

Luxury · Next to venue

Shangri-La Qiantan

上海前滩香格里拉酒店

Next door

The closest luxury option to our venue — indoor pool, wellness club, and several restaurants on site. A two-minute walk.

From ~$210/night Book
Mid-range · Design-forward

Artyzen Habitat Qiantan

上海前滩雅辰悦居酒店

~5 min walk

Modern, well-designed hotel a few minutes from Taikoo Li and the Oriental Sports Center metro stop. Great balance of comfort and value.

From ~$80/night Book
Affordable · Boutique

The Shàng Qiantan

上海前滩雅辰尚酒店

~5 min walk

Friendly boutique hotel from the Artyzen group, one street over from Taikoo Li. Lifestyle feel at a very reasonable rate.

From ~$60/night Book

Getting Around Shanghai

A short guide for anyone who hasn't been to mainland China recently:

Airports

International flights usually land at Pudong (PVG, east of the city) or Hongqiao (SHA, west). From PVG, allow 40–50 minutes to central Shanghai by taxi or metro (Line 2, with transfers). From Hongqiao, about 30–40 minutes to downtown. The Airport Express (市域机场线) connects the two airports in roughly 40 minutes if you're transferring between flights. Taxis and DiDi are available at both terminals.

Metro

Shanghai's metro is the easiest way to get around the city — fast, cheap, and covers most places you'll visit. Fares are a few yuan; pay with Alipay, WeChat Pay, or a Shanghai Public Transport Card at any station. Signs and announcements include English. Use MetroMan or 地铁 Metro for routes and live train times. Lines 1, 2, 10, and 11 connect the main tourist neighborhoods (Bund, French Concession, Jing'an, Lujiazui). For the wedding venue in Qiantan: Line 18 to 前滩 (Qiantan) Station, or Lines 6 / 8 / 11 to Oriental Sports Center — both are a short walk from Taikoo Li.

Taxis & ride-hailing

DiDi (滴滴) is what most locals use — English interface, upfront pricing, pay in-app. Street taxis are available but drivers often speak little English; show your destination in Chinese from AMap or Apple Maps. Traffic can be heavy at rush hour, so allow extra time. DiDi works well for late nights when the metro has stopped.

Payments

Shanghai is almost entirely cashless — street vendors, metro, taxis, and restaurants all expect mobile pay. Install Alipay (支付宝) and/or WeChat Pay (微信支付) before you arrive and link a foreign Visa or Mastercard (both support international tourists). Complete identity verification at home before your trip so your account is not flagged while in China. Keep a small amount of RMB cash (¥200–500) as backup.

Maps & navigation

AMap (高德地图) is the most accurate app for walking, transit, and DiDi pickups — switch to English in settings. Apple Maps works reasonably well for general navigation. Google Maps is unreliable in mainland China without a VPN.

Internet & VPN

Google, Gmail, Instagram, WhatsApp, and YouTube are blocked on local networks. Install a VPN (e.g. Mullvad) before you leave home if you need access. An international travel eSIM sometimes routes around the firewall automatically. Hotel Wi‑Fi follows the same rules.

Translation

Apple Translate works offline and handles Chinese well — useful for menus and quick conversations. Google Translate (with VPN) and Baidu Translate (百度翻译) are strong alternatives. Point your camera at text for instant menu translation.

Food allergies

Allergy awareness in China is more limited than in the US — menus and staff may not flag cross-contamination. If you have serious allergies, bring a translated allergy card (we can help you prepare one) and carry your own medication. Always confirm ingredients directly rather than assuming a dish is safe.

Coming from abroad? · 来自海外

Getting into China

Here are the three common entry paths — rules change, so always confirm with your local Chinese embassy or consulate before you book.

Watch: Everything you need to know

For our United States guests

With a United States passport, you are not eligible for China's 30-day visa-free entry. Most United States travelers use either the 240-hour visa-free transit (Option B) with an onward ticket to a third country or region, or a tourist (L) visa (Option C).

Read Options B and C below — they spell out exactly what applies to you.

Entry options

Option A: Visa-free entry Up to 30 days

This path applies to passport holders from eligible countries — including the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, New Zealand, Japan, South Korea, and much of Europe. Check the full country list to confirm. United States passport holders are not covered by this program; skip to Option B or C.

How it works

  1. 1 Hold a valid ordinary passport from an eligible country (confirm on the list)
  2. 2 Have a confirmed onward or return ticket
  3. 3 Fly in — no application required

Policy is currently published through Dec 31, 2026 and has been extended several times. Verify before you travel.

See the full country list (NIA)
Option B: Visa-free transit Up to 10 days (240 hours)

United States citizens (and many others, including the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, Japan, and all Schengen countries) can transit through China visa-free for up to 240 hours — as long as you are flying onward to a third country or region. Hong Kong, Macau, and Singapore all count. Example: San Francisco → Shanghai → Tokyo → home.

How it works

  1. 1 Book an onward ticket to a third country or region within the allowed window
  2. 2 At check-in, tell the airline you will use the 240-hour transit policy
  3. 3 After landing in Shanghai, request the free Temporary Entry Permit at the visa-free transit desk

Works at Shanghai Pudong (PVG) and Hongqiao (SHA). This is the most popular option for United States guests — pair the wedding with a stop in Tokyo, Seoul, or Hong Kong and skip the visa paperwork entirely. Heads up: at the transit desk you may be asked to show proof of your travel plans — have your onward flight/train tickets, hotel bookings, and itinerary ready (printed or on your phone).

Transit policy — Embassy of China in the United States
Option C: Apply for a tourist visa Tourist (L) visa

Choose this if you are traveling on a United States passport without an onward ticket to a third country, or if you want a longer stay. As of 2024 the process is simpler — United States applicants no longer need invitation letters, hotel bookings, or round-trip tickets.

How it works

  1. 1 Complete the online application at China's COVA portal
  2. 2 Submit your passport and printed form in person (or via an agent) at your local Chinese Visa Application Service Center
  3. 3 Collect your passport after processing (often about four business days; express may be available)

United States citizens pay about $140 at time of writing. Fingerprints have been waived for many applicants through 2026. We recommend applying one to two months before travel.

Start your application (COVA)

Official resources

COVA · Online Visa Application Official form for L-visa and all other visa types. Visa Application Service Centers Find the submission office nearest you. National Immigration Administration Authoritative visa-free policy details (English).
Good to Know · 常见问题

Questions

A few answers to common questions. Can't find what you're looking for? Just ask us directly.

How do I get to the venue?

The celebration is at High Yunjian by Light & Salt — rooftop R1 at Qiantan Center (前滩中心), 555 Haiyang West Road, beside Taikoo Li. Take Metro Line 18 to Qiantan (前滩) or Lines 6 / 8 / 11 to Oriental Sports Center, then walk to Qiantan Center and follow signage for Light & Salt. DiDi (滴滴) works well for taxis. If you drive, allow extra time for parking around Qiantan Center or the mall carparks.

Do I need a visa to come to China?

It depends on your passport. United States passport holders are not on China's 30-day visa-free list, but can usually use the 240-hour visa-free transit (with an onward ticket to a third country) or apply for a tourist visa. Many other nationalities — including the United Kingdom, Canada, Australia, and most of Europe — may enter visa-free for up to 30 days. See the visa guide above for the full breakdown, and always confirm with your embassy before booking.

How do I pay for things in Shanghai?

Shanghai is almost entirely cashless. Before you arrive, install Alipay (支付宝) and/or WeChat Pay (微信支付) and link your international Visa or Mastercard — both now support foreign cards for tourists. Keep ¥200–500 in cash as a backup. Most hotels and larger restaurants also accept foreign credit cards directly.

Will I have internet access?

Google, Gmail, Instagram, WhatsApp, and YouTube are blocked on local networks. If you rely on them, install a VPN (e.g. Mullvad) before you arrive — downloading one inside China is much harder. Many international travel eSIMs also bypass the firewall automatically, which is another great option.

Can I bring a plus one?

We're keeping the celebration intimate. Every invited guest will have access to this invite page and can RSVP through their first and last name or provided email. If your significant other is invited, their name will appear separately in our system and they can RSVP on their own.

Are kids welcome?

We love your little ones, but with the exception of the designated child roles, we've chosen to keep the ceremony and reception an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and celebrate.

What's the best way to RSVP?

Through our RSVP form above. Please respond by our deadline August 1st so we can finalize the headcount with our venue.

Who can I contact with other questions?

Email us at berniexsharon@gmail.com or text Bernie at +1-213-268-4742 — we're happy to help with travel, logistics, or anything else.

Join Us · 敬请回复

Will you be there?

Please let us know by August 1, 2026. We can't wait to celebrate with you.